Friday, October 29, 2010
Father-Son, Father-Daughter, Mother-Son, Mother-Daughter
First two thoughts that come to mind are “daddy’s girl” and “momma’s boy”. the two extremes that initially distinguish the difference between genders in a family. I can honestly say that i fit the definition of a daddy’s girl pretty well, but i have to wonder how my relationship with my father might be if i were a boy. The father daughter relationship tends to generally be a protective and doting one. I know from personal experience that in my case this is completely true. I will always be thought of as my dad’s “little girl” no matter how old I get. It seems to me that the daughter is always treated more special or favored by the father and the son is always doted on more by the mother. Momma’s boys sharing the same sort of complex daddy’s girls have with their father. However, I feel that i have a closer bond with my mother just because she goes through or has gone through the same things i will or have and its easier to relate to her. I also think of my mom as more of a role model than i do my father. Because i don’t have any brothers and I’m not a boy, I can only speculate that the relationship between a father and his son is like the one I have with my mom. I cant say all father-son, father-daughter, mother-son, mother-daughter relationships are exactly how i described them, but i think a lot of them consist of the same characteristics.
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Are there times when you wish you weren't "daddy's little girl"? Doesn't the fact that you'll never be able to escape that classification bother you?
ReplyDeleteThis has very factual points in terms of stereotyp[es... many people do naturally feel that they conenct with the same sex more than cross bonding.... NICE!
ReplyDeleteThe way you took the "daddy's girl," and "momma's boy," and contemplated them and what they mean to you is nice
ReplyDeleteI like that you talking about how you personally are a "daddy's girl" but wonder what itd be like if you were a boy. That makes me think about whether my relationship with either or both of my parents would be better if I was a boy.
ReplyDeletei like ur background :)
ReplyDeleteandd u dont want brothers they suckk....
and im closer to my mom too
Just as you feel you have a better bond with your Mother, I feel that I have a better bond with my Father. I think it's interesting that this is not the usual way things go.
ReplyDeletedo you think this stereotype of mama's boy or daddy's girl applies to homosexuals?
ReplyDeleteInteresting position to take on the topic. This post made think of Waterboy...
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